Tag: adulthood

Trying to fit in having a life when I can (#workingretailduringtheholidays).

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Have I mentioned that life is crazy at the moment? I feel like basically all I do is eat, sleep, work, shower and do laundry. It’s pretty much all I am doing at the moment.

That being said, I am trying to squeeze in having a life. While it isn’t much, just doing something for myself, for my sanity and mental health. Whether it is going on a date, or going to my favorite bakery and picking up a couple cupcakes after work on a friday followed by walking along the street taking pictures of the murals on the sides of the buildings.

I used to work up in this area, several years ago, which is how I knew about all these murals. The area this is in is a designated “Arts District”.

I honestly love the urban artwork, and it makes me want to go explore other places with these murals on buildings.

This is the time of year when you have your people who believe that retail should be closed on Thanksgiving, and then those who don’t care and / or think it should. While the company I work for is closed on Thanksgiving, I am in the camp where I argue that retail stores can do whatever they want to do. When someone chooses to go into Retail / Food Service and Other Customer Service based jobs (among other industries), getting holidays off is not always going to happen. Giving up holidays is something one must be willing to accept if you go into these industries. For many, working holidays means much needed pay to try to make ends meet, and keep food on the table. For others it’s just the nature of the industry and where you are on the seniority ladder and the staffing needs for the day. If you don’t want to shop on Thanksgiving then don’t shop, If you don’t want to work on Thanksgiving then don’t get a job in an industry where you may have to, I respect others choices not to shop or work in an industry where the employees have to work on holidays. I also don’t want them forcing their choice on me, whether I (or others) want to work or shop on Thanksgiving (or any holiday for that matter). Is it nice to have a day off? Yes, it is. If I had to choose between a day off (aka losing a day’s pay) or working extra / normally scheduled hours and have a better paycheck, at this point in my life the paycheck is the choice I would make. There are other factors that go into why some people want to work on holidays, and they are well within their right to do so.

For Me, having time with family doesn’t and shouldn’t be dictated to me at the cost of losing pay, when I can make time for family on my regularly scheduled days off and other times of the year when work is not in the peak season. I don’t a specific date on the calendar to show my friends and family I care about them. Sometimes the random, spur of the moment, spontaneous acts of kindness are the best.

This Season, I have really learned how to be able to laugh off certain situations and get on with it, since stressing out or letting it get to you, only hurts you and has a more negative effect on your mental and physical health. I am not saying you should laugh everything off, since there are more serious issues that need to be dealt with head on. It’s more of the minor stuff, like a mess was made or you forgot to do something that didn’t have serious consequences that you could correct easily or do better the next time, or something happened and it is what it is, and being able to find the humor in the situation.


The Holiday Rush is Starting.

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The last few weeks have been crazy busy.

This week, I have been sick for most of the week. So I have been pushing through being sick and working as many hours as I am offered.

I picked up an extra shift at a different store last night, since they needed extra help. This was the third store I have worked a shift at this season. I still love my home store, yet I also enjoy working shifts at different stores, and working with their crews.

While I am not a morning person, my normal shifts at work are ideal, I start early, and got off as the store opens.

This time of year is the craziest time of year when you work retail. It seems like my life is basically all eating, sleeping, and working. Trying to have a life as well can be a challenge, but I am trying. I managed to fit in a date yesterday before having to go to work. We had met up for coffee.

We had met up at a coffee shop I am familiar with, from when I worked in the area. It has kind of a old hunting lodge type theme to its decor, which is one of the things I liked about it. It is also very Portland.

The tea I had ordered, showed up while I was at work yesterday. Stash Tea, is my standby for tea. Even though Stash is local, one of the things I like about ordering it online is that there are 10 more tea bags per box. The more you buy of a particular kind (like English Breakfast Tea), the price per teabag goes down.

It is catching up with me

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This week has been pretty busy. I worked some extra hours this week. The week before last was the craziest.

With the exception of the 40 hour week I worked a couple weeks ago, this week was wore me out. I took an hour long nap yesterday and took a two hour nap today, which is crazy. I was just thinking back to last year when I had worked the same number of hours / days, and yeah, I was this tired. I can handle two days in a row of my job just fine. Three or more in a row is what gets me.

I also feel like I have been constantly hungry too, and that all I really want all day is to be eating food.

Part of why I have been trying to take naps, as well as drink more water is because I don’t want to get sick. Not getting enough sleep, and letting yourself get so run down is a recipe for getting sick. Getting up between 3:15 and 4:15 am each day has been a bit touch since I am not a morning person. At the same time it has been nice to be off of work before noon.

Today has been rainy, cool and grey. It made taking a nap so much easier and better. It is easier to sleep during the day when it’s like it has been today. When it is sunny, it is harder to sleep because it is bright. There is something about the darker days that tricks your brain to make falling asleep easier.

Family Beach Day

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Last week flew by, this weekend was good, and other than an early start to my morning today went good.

Yesterday, my family and I went to the beach. We headed out to the north coast, Cannon Beach and Rockaway Beach (and the small towns in between). Cannon Beach and Seaside are my least favorite coastal towns, as they have lost their small coastal town vibes that I like, and that many beach towns here in Oregon still have. There is this bakery in Cannon Beach that has been around since the 1930’s. We stopped in, and I was surprised that they had a raisin spice muffin that was dairy free. A lot of bakeries like that don’t have dairy free options. It was nice that I could get a treat too. While I am an adult, and have been dairy free for the better part of 7 years, it does suck sometimes when everyone else can enjoy a treat and I have to abstain. In between wandering around Cannon Beach for a bit and coming back to Cannon Beach for dinner, we went down to Rockaway to go for a walk on the beach.

While it was nice in Cannon Beach, it was foggy in Rockaway.

We had walked to the jetty before turning around.

We had gone back to Cannon Beach for dinner, and tried someplace new. They had several items that could be made vegan, which is a go to for me, to make sure it is dairy free. Normally I do eat meat.

We got back to town in enough time for me to shower and go to bed since I had to be up early (3:15 am kind of early) for work.

After we got home, I realized I had gotten a little sunburned, which was crazy, since it is autumn, where we were actually walking on the beach was foggy, and I had applied SPF 70 sunblock before leaving home.

My morning at work went well. I am not a morning person, but once I am up and going (granted I get enough sleep), I actually like the schedule I have. I still sleep at night when it is day, and awake during the day. I also still have my late morning and afternoons free. That is a plus.

The craziest schedule

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Today is Thursday, right?

This week has been crazy. My work schedule has been all over the place, which means my sleeping schedule has been all over the place.

Monday was great since I had gotten off early enough in the morning that it was still dark when I went to bed, and was a cold, grey, dark kind of day which was great for sleeping. Tuesday, I also got off early enough that I could fall asleep before the sun came up.

Yesterday, was the craziest day of them all. I had started at 1:30 am, got off at 10 am, and then went and saw my mom before I came home. By the time I got home and showered, and went to bed it was after noon. Yesterday was sunny, and even if I had gone straight home it was daylight so going to bed about 11 or after noon didn’t make much difference. I slept a few hours and then had to be at work again at 9:30 last night. That was the craziest, the quick turnaround between the two shifts.

That brings me up to right now, Thursday afternoon, about four and having just woken up for the day after going to bed this morning.

So here I am, still exhausted, ready for this week to be over, yet still having one shift to go before that happens. Fortunately I will have had roughly 20 hours between when my last shift ended and the next one actually starts when all is said and done instead of 11.5 hours and starting my next shift the same day I got off the last night one.

Tomorrow is gonna be good. It’s payday and then it is also the weekend. For now though I need to do some laundry, make some tea and get some food before getting some more sleep before I go back to work.

Good Daytime Sleeping Weather

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I am still trying to wake up. I worked last night, so I slept today. Thank goodness today has been cool, grey and rainy. That made sleeping during the day easier.

I have work again tonight. We are getting ready for Christmas, and setting up our holiday shops.

This evening I had opened my window, and could tell someone was having a fire, as I could smell it in the air. I love these rainy autumn days where it is cool enough for people to be having fires. I do love this time of year.

I have really been missing living in a small town in the middle of nowhere lately. Especially evenings like this where it is rainy, cool and there is a hint of smoke in the air. I loved the lighter traffic, and small town vibes.

Greek Fest Weekend

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It’s Greek Fest Weekend here in beautiful, rainy, Portland, Oregon!

It has become a tradition that my family and I go to Greek Fest each year.

I got a couple of gyros, a sausage and some loukoumades (honey covered doughnut hole type dessert). The food is so good.

Yesterday my brother came back from his week long vacation to Hawaii.

Saturday is also a typical errand running day.

Tonight I have work, and have work the rest of the week as well. So life is getting busier these days.

In between eating, sleeping and working I am also trying to be getting as much knitting as I can done. I am trying get as many pairs of socks done while it is cold and wet so when next summer rolls around, there will be socks to be washed and blocked.

End of my First Week of a New Job.

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I have finished out my first week of work. While I am a bit sore and tired, It was a very good week. I love the sense of accomplishment I have after each work day, and that I am earning my own money.

On my morning commutes to work, it still kinda weirds me out how many people are out and about that early in the morning. That is one thing about having lived in a small town that has never left me, the whole being used to no night life and the town rolling up the sidewalks by 8 or 9 pm.

On my way home from work, later on in the mornings, once it is fully daylight, the clusters of tents where the homeless have set up and are living (especially near the freeway) is a glaring eye sore.

I start working my second location in a little over a week. I am going to be very busy until Christmas, and honestly I am very ok with that.

I have slowly been working my current pair of socks. I have still been working on the first sock that I have had to reknit it.

Back to Work!!!

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Yesterday was my first day at my new job. I started at 6:00 am, which meant I had to be up by 4:15 am. I was awake a bit before 4, so I got up and started getting ready.

I was off at a 11:00. The 5 hour shift went by super fast.

I am doing what I did last year, at a different location.

My day didn’t end with work, I came home, did a load of laundry, made some easy artisan bread and lentils. I was exhausted at the end of the day.

It was a good day, beings that I am doing the same job I did last year, It is a bit easier jumping it back in to it since I have a good idea of what is going on.

This week is a bit slower which is nice. It is giving me time to get adjusted to my schedule. I am also able to get some more knitting done.

These first couple weeks, while I figure out my schedule and get adjusted, I am laying low on my days off and planning my adventures for a bit later in the month as well as into November. There are several things I want to go do and see.

The Next Chapter is beginning!

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The Weather is cooling down, the days are getting shorter and I am finally going back to work, at least for the holidays.

I am very ready to be back to work.

There were a few adventures I wanted to go on here in Portland last spring that just didn’t work out. I am planning on making them happen in the next few months, when I have a day off or free afternoon.

While I don’t want to stay in Portland any longer than I have to, there are things I want to do here before I am able to leave. I have so many ideas for blog posts, Instagram pics, and more. I am ready to be back out on adventures now that it is cooling off. While I have several things on my bucketlist for the adventures I want to go on and share with you all, I would love some additional ideas of places that you all would like to see me go and write about! So leave me a comment on this post with what Portland sights you would like me to go to!

I am working on reknitting the sock I had started over the weekend.